(this is written after read an article shared by Qing, but cant find it liao)
Nowaday, woman really need to be financial independent.
if ur family having a dad who support the family for his entire life and mum sacrified her time for taking care the family~
u will see the attitude/ position difference in a family.
mb one day when u have 3kids, u r thinking spend almost >50% of ur income to daycare ,
why not u spend ur time at home taking care the family...
[ Occupation: housewife is almost the final target for some of the woman.]
yup!! ur hubby might be agree at the 1st place...
man always have this problem (depends on how serious is his illness), man always think he has the capability to earn and protect the family, that is the pride/proud/ honour of the man...
when after sometime, he will gradually forget how much u have help to save the day care money, but only remember how much he gonna pay extra for u and family...
when he heard his colleague changing a new car, new gadgets, new house~~ he will start to think, if I dun have so much burden on my shoulder, i could afford the same too.
then complaining life might just started...
but at that moment, woman has lost their competitiveness to fight with all those aggressive and energetic youngsters.
woman lost her confident, so she might choose to keep silent and keep all these feeling for herself/
if u think u able to earn (not in tough environment)
no matter how many children u have, woman still better to own her career...
He will appreciate u being a financial support partner than a yellow face woman,
Everyday, having some personal space to breath...having own social life to upgrade urself~
and for kids, ya, u might need extra effort to teach/ deal with them (mb is more exhausted to deal with them full time)...
A stylist i knew in JB, she told me that her 3 kids will also be proud of her when she working...
and being more respectful....
when i heard that, 1st tot is..."wah, ur kids are quite realistic poh..." but think twice, this is a realistic world..and this is how it works.
1 comment:
Agreed married lady should keep on their career and earn for themselves. Don't "dream" so much for being 100% housewife with plenty of time @ home for kids and etc... This will spoilt ladies own precious time for herself.
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